Cosmic Fortune: Marfa, TX

After a rough night’s sleep in Sonora and a long, windy drive across western Texas (windy as in wind, not winding; I would have killed for some winding), our spirits lifted considerably upon landing in Marfa. Our first stop was the Tumble In, a bare-bones but decidedly charming RV park.

Regrettably, no sooner had we set up camp than the wind picked up with a vengeance and snapped not one, not two, but three of our tent poles.

Thanks, Coleman.

The portion of the tent still standing continued to billow violently while we scurried around it in a panic, bracing poles, pinning flaps, all the while helplessly mesmerized by the magnificent sunset unfurling around us: “Quick, hold it down there! No, over there! Pull that part in — oh wow babe, look at the sky! — Are you pulling?”

Finally, we accepted defeat, took the tent down, and headed into town. At this point it was around 9 PM, and the few hotels in the area were closed, so we ended up renting a “safari tent” at a luxury campground (yes, you read that right) called El Cosmico.

While neither of us was particularly happy about paying Best Western rates to sleep in a tent, that tent did have metal poles and a real bed, which was more than our current setup offered. We slept like two dirty, cranky babies.

The next day we managed to Frankenstein some extra poles together and reconstruct our tent, and snagged a much cheaper spot on the more primitive side of the campground. While by no means economical, El Cosmico was undeniably magical — I’d glanced briefly at a Google review that described it as having a “Moonrise Kingdom” vibe, which was utterly accurate.

The grounds are populated with tipis, yurts, and a rainbow of vintage campers, as well as solar showers, an outdoor cantina, and bountiful “hammock groves.” They even hosted karaoke on Saturday night, where Sean brought the campground to its knees with a powerful rendition of Harvey Danger’s “Flagpole Sitta.”

We spent a hot afternoon roaming around downtown Marfa, exploring a handful of quiet little arts boutiques and galleries — notably an Andy Warhol gallery that housed just three wall-sized prints of his “Last Supper” series. (I found the work itself less intriguing than the gallery’s giant, cumbersome iron-and-glass door, naggingly postered with “DO NOT SLAM” on both sides.)

The town itself has a kind of majestic sparseness that seems to mirror west Texas landscape. Lots of windswept earth tones accented with flashes of color, terse neon signs proclaiming “bar” or “hotel” or “open.” After the tent debacle, and after getting safely situated at El Cosmico, Sean and I took the edge off at the Lost Horse Saloon, where a lanky Sam Elliott type served us strong gin and tonics and what could well have been the entire 20-something population of Marfa turned out for an electronic show.

Overall, however, we spent most of our time at El Cosmico, lolling in hammocks and playing guitar at our campsite, doing shots of tequila to prepare for karaoke (we had to lick salt off of the paper of Sean’s sketchbook because our hands were covered in bug spray).

It wasn’t until we were heading out of town and passed by the famous Prada installation on Highway 90 that it occurred to me we hadn’t really seen (or — gasp! — photographed) any of the things one is supposed to see in Marfa. I think I can live with that, however, and I hope you, dear reader, can too. If there’s one thing I’ve learned from traveling over the years, it’s that there’s always going to be something you didn’t do, so you might as well focus on what you’re doing.

Until next time, Texas.

Stomping Grounds: Plano, TX

About a week ago Sean and I made it to Plano, Texas, where he grew up. As a country kid, I used to be confused when he told people he was from “the Dallas area” — like, are you from Dallas or are you from a completely different town? (Fortunately, when I tell people I’m from Iowa their only question is whether that’s the one with corn or the one with potatoes. It’s the one with corn.)

Now, having spent some time in Dallas, I understand that Plano is part of Dallas in much the same way this park bench is part of the creek:

Plano’s Chisolm Creek on Sunday. What climate change?

Basically, the Dallas area is like a transformer made of towns that it swallowed up. This is all very foreign to me; New Orleans, though it contains enough weirdness for a few Dallases put together, is actually a very small city. I’ve never lived anywhere where the downtown had more than three exits. In fact, the town where I grew up could probably be comfortably housed inside one of Dallas’s skyscrapers.

As luck would have it, this turned out to be the perfect time for Sean to visit his childhood home: the day after we arrived, his parents put it on the market. After 20+ years in Plano, they’ve set their sights on something a little more rural. I’m excited to visit them at their fainting goat farm next time around, but I imagine it’s pretty weird for Sean — it’s hard to say goodbye to the place you spent your formative years in.

And I do mean formative.

While his parents shopped for their new home, Sean and I decided to become homeowners ourselves. Our budget was about $12.99, and I think we did pretty well for ourselves.

Feel free to visit! We have a guest wing.

Our visit was also well-timed because it coincided with Father’s Day, and Sean has one of those. His grandfather, Richard, also lives in the area, so the lot of us went out to celebrate their fatherliness with pizza and beer.

Three generations of cool dudes.

We also took a little day trip to Denton, where one of Sean’s high school friends is now a father himself. We spent a few hours in the thrall of Neva’s cuteness, discussing matters such as “hat!” and “hi!” We learned that any item can be classified as a hat when you put it on your head, including but not limited to plastic stacking cups and my hoop earrings.

Take a look at that little tum-tum and tell me you’re not in love.

After Dallas we’ll be in uncharted waters for a couple weeks, covering some territory that’s unfamiliar to both of us. With our hearts full of Texas love, we’re ready to take on anything.

Deep in the <3: Austin, TX

One thing you’ve got to know about Sean: he’s a Texas boy. I’m pretty sure his heart is just one big cast iron star. If you sang “the stars at night, are big and bright,” he’d probably clap four times in his sleep. As soon as we passed the sign welcoming us to the “Drive Friendly” state (which mostly means your fellow drivers will wave as they cut you off), he was in seventh heaven.

I know, I hate the phrase “in seventh heaven” too, but you see what I did there, right?

As evidenced by the surreptitious marketing above, (feel free to sponsor us now, @GuerosTacoBar!) we have indeed been eating a truly impressive amount of tacos. I think it may be a state law that every block in Austin have at least four taco stands. Every imaginable name describing an establishment that serves Tex Mex has been used: Taco Palace! Burrito Canyon! Tamale Wigwam! Nacho Gazebo!

We spent most of our time in Austin bouncing happily from one beer dispensary to the next with various combinations of friends, braving the heat to take in some local art and scenic views.

“Water Woman” by Wangechi Mutu at the Austin Contemporary
“Lake Nessy” by Dixie Friend Gay
Regrettably, this view was made somewhat less peaceful by the church group playing amplified Jesus rock at the lookout point.

Sean and I also spent some time exploring on our own. We passed a morning sunbathing at Barton Springs, a gorgeous spring-fed swimming pool where Robert Redford apparently learned to swim as a child.

We also checked out (get it?) the Austin Central Library in the Market District. As a wandering introvert, I consider myself something of a connoisseur of libraries, and this one topped the charts. Art galleries, tech rentals, work rooms, 3-d printers, a literary puppet exhibit, a rooftop garden, even a cafe and bar. (If you get drunk at a library, it’s still automatically classy, right?)

Making friends with some 3-D art.
A whole section just for zines!

I’m pretty sure Sean and I could never afford to live in Austin unless we a) won the lottery or b) became sewer people, but it’s nice knowing we’ve got so many good people in such a fascinating and progressive place.